God's Beautiful Gift
SET HIGH STANDARDS
Make a commitment to wait. Decide that you will
wait for sex from today until the day you marry.
When you say, “I want to wait,” make it clear that
you want to wait until you’re married—not until you
are in the mood—or until a really cute guy comes
along—not until you are in-love—not until you
are engaged. But wait until your wedding night.

LOVE AND LUST - Discuss the differences with your peers
Sex itself is not something bad or dirty. Sex creates an awesome intimacy.
But if people ignore how sex works, the way God designed it, they will get
hurt and will miss out on the true pleasure of sex in marriage.
What is love? The desire to benefit someone else at the expense of self.
What is lust? The desire to benefit self at someone else’s expense.
When you choose to have sex before marriage, you are sacrificing your
emotional, psychological and physical health. The consequences behind it
can be tremendous and you not only hurt yourself, but others who love and
care for you.
WHAT IS FORNICATION?
The word fornication is often found in the Holy Bible. The simple definition
of fornication means immoral, voluntary sexual intercourse between a man
and a woman, whether single and having sex or married and having sex with
someone other than his/her spouse.
SEX IS GOD’S GIFT TO HUSBAND AND WIFE
Sex must be within the context of holy matrimony marriage. It is to protect
us from physical and emotional damage and to allow us to enjoy sexual
intimacy at its best. When male and female have sex outside the bond of
marriage, it is never a private event. You would have to slip and slide, peep
and hide. But to do it within the confines of God’s plan, you can relax and
enjoy intimacy in your marriage.
Choose today which way you will go. You are in the driver’s seat. Will you
wait—which is the smart choice? Or will you follow your hormones or some
cute boy telling you that he loves you and how sexy you are? Only you can
decide how you will choose.
The sure thing is to save sex for marriage.